Taken from ye old treasure chest of words of wisdom ;
Relationships are never simple - nothing is, actually. Oh
come on. When he comes online 5 minutes late, when his Facebook wall is being
spammed by some other girls, when he didn't pick up your calls/reply your
texts; suddenly we, girls become afraid. Afraid of that one very painful
possibility, losing your someone to another. In short, jealousy becomes your
new best enemy! Go figure that out, if it makes sense to you.
To me, if you're not ready to face these things, you're not
ready to be in a relationship, well if you are already in one, then you're not
being serious in your relationship. (I've been careful enough to add "To
me" in my sentence, so please don't shoot me with hate notes claiming that
I'm wrong, you can politely do so by leaving a comment though. Hah!)
Nevertheless, falling in love isn't that all bad. But then, I think you should get
the rough idea about those in movies/books. But I believe things will turn out
perfectly alright if you place the right standards, the right focus in your
relationship. Big things that are commonly belittled in a relationship like
family, self welfare and sometimes, God. Suddenly, being in love blocks out
these things that was once important but isn't anymore; that's definitely not
how love works.
Sometimes things happen and you can’t explain why it did or
how it happened. Sometimes when it happens you wish you could turn back time
and fix what you’ve done or even find out what went wrong. People make mistakes.
Stupid mistakes because they’re in a hurry or their sad or angry or just plain
careless. Bad things can happen within seconds and you won’t even see it
coming. It’s like a bad dream that came true. One day you’re living your life
as normal as you possibly could and the next thing you know, you receive a bad
Even walking on the streets and you accidentally tripped on
a pebble and fall. Did you see it coming? No. You didn’t. No one knows what the
future holds. Thus, Never Ever take things for granted. Even the slightest
So people. Trust me when I say this. never ever take things
for granted even the smallest things that YOU think might not be important, it
could be in the future. Same goes to not taking people for granted. I know
these words have been repeated many many many times. But trust me, you do not
want it to happen. If it does then you cant do anything but to move on and
learn from mistakes. That’s why they create the word LESSON. Learn from them.
To the girlfriend ;
Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help
create the fact :)
I know you are going through a hard time now. If you ever
feels like breaking down,think of the people who loves you dearly no matter
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My thoughts and opinions change from time to time…I consider this a necessary consequence of having an open mind. This weblog is intended to provide a semi-permanent point in time snapshot and manifestation of the various memes running around my brain, and as such any thoughts and opinions expressed within out-of-date posts may not the same, nor even similar, to those I may hold today.